Unmasking Kink

Season 1 Episode 3 Let Kink Stay Kinky

In this episode of Unmasking Kink, we delve into the tension between authenticity and acceptability in the kink community. Inspired by insightful posts from FetLife users Tittan and Vampyre, we explore the implications of sanitizing BDSM for mainstream comfort.
We'll discuss personal boundaries, the importance of consent, and the value of embracing the raw, unfiltered aspects of kink.
Whether you're a seasoned player or new to the scene, this conversation invites you to reflect on the true essence of kink and the importance of preserving its integrity.
 Featured FetLife Writers:
Tittan – “When Kink Gets Tamed: The Dangers of Vanilla-fying BDSM”
Vampyre – “BDSM Isn’t About Making Outsiders Comfortable”

Season 1 Episode 2 Am I Kinky or Vanilla?

You’ve probably asked yourself:
“Am I kinky? Or just curious?”“Does liking [insert thing here] make me into kink?”“Do I have to pick a side?”
The answers? Could be both, possibly, and absolutely not.
In this episode, I give my take on what it means to be kinky or vanilla, or somewhere in between. We’ll talk about how those labels aren’t fixed, what actually “counts” as kink, and how to start exploring.
Topics include:
The difference between kink and vanilla
Why “what counts as kink” depends on who you ask
Where to look for real, respectful information
Whether you're seasoned, curious, or still figuring it out—you belong here.
Resources mentioned:
FetLife: https://fetlife.com
Chief’s Sex Menu: https://kinkyevents.co.uk/sex-menu
Shibari on YouTube (my favorite video): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HTnFlfm04uk
Local classes and munches: Search via FetLife or reach out to event organizers
More: https://unmaskingkink.com

Season 1 Episode 1 What Is Kink?

Description:
 
In this debut episode of Unmasking Kink, Nova Monroe breaks down what kink actually is—and what it isn’t. We talk about the difference between kink and BDSM, explore how kink doesn’t always have to be sexual, and tackle the question: Is this normal? (Spoiler: yes.) Whether you’re curious, questioning, or just here to learn, this episode gives you a shame-free, honest look at how broad and human kink really is.
 
Show Notes & Resources:
 
 
Articles & Resources Referenced:
 
Healthline – What Is Kink?
Business Insider – List of Kinks, According to Experts
Verywell Mind – Understanding Sexual Kinks and Fetishes
Kinkly – Kink Glossary & Psychology of Kink
National Coalition for Sexual Freedom – https://www.ncsfreedom.org
Focus on the Family – Sexual Behavior Outside of God’s Design
Institute for Family Studies – Sexual Liberation Is Not Sexual Freedom
Covenant Spice – Christian sex-positive resource: https://covenantspice.com
 
 
Connect with Nova:
Website: unmaskingkink.com
Submit questions, sources, or feedback via the contact form!
 

Episode 0: Introduction

Welcome to Unmasking Kink! Let me start by introducing myself, and give you the low down on what to expect from Unmasking Kink and the community we're going to build together!

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Unmasking Kink is a podcast for the curious, the kinky, and everyone in between. 
Hosted by Nova Monroe, each episode explores real questions about kink, BDSM, and the lifestyle. Nova isn't an expert, but she's a proud research nerd, digging into topics so we can learn and grow together. 
From vanilla to veteran, this space is for anyone who's ever felt left out, unsure or just plain curios. 
Join Nova, and together, we'll unmask what kink is all about.